I do not find it selfish in the least to wish this to be resolved, I think, outside of maybe a small fringe group most people wish this could be resolved so that everyone can go back to what they set out to do. With the state of things though, people who do take the time to make new things have taken a pause with their efforts (myself included) unless there is some sort of mutual understanding and respect to speak of, we cannot push forth as a community. That lies within the community it's self to come to a consensus as to what they are willing to do and what they're willing to respect as the wishes of the people taking the time to make the things they enjoy.
As many others have said, when you take the time to create the things you do, you have a certain regard for them because they are rather important to you, when people just walk all over them (and by proxy you) it is rather offensive. When it becomes clear that more of the community than just a fringe group feels it's ok to do so, that's when there's a problem. That is ultimately what has led us here to where we are today, people who do take the time frankly feel as though they've been disregarded for the time they invest for the sake of having just more of the same released in rapid-fire, which satisfies some perhaps but at a cost if the people who made those things possible are harmed in the process.
If we as a community can consolidate this rift and return to a place of mutual respect for the end-user, alteration modders, and original creators the community will get stronger as a whole from this episode. If it is to be that people believe some people should get special treatment, or that for the sake of having more mods out there the original creators can be disregarded just to keep the content coming, the original creators will cease to provide. The end result of such a thing would mean nothing new for anyone to enjoy as everyone who can do it will move on to a less hostile environment for them. The reason this community has stayed around so long is because of the mutual respect that as of late, has been neglected, and without it you have anarchy.
Hopefully people can learn to get along and recognize how things stand, and how they have to change to go forth and come to a consensus as to how to go about it, if people can't get along and agree then everyone as a whole will lose.